Feeling especially crap today, tearful and lethargic (not helped my reading "oh look I am having such a fab time as a single parent it's so easy" thread
My Ex is just such a twunt. I try not to let him get to me as I lost all respect for him ages ago but he can just get under my skin and make me feel crap.
He thinks he's so superior to me and everything I do, such as work hard and save for the future (just so bourgious (sp) apparenlty)
I try to maintain DS's relationship with him but he does not make it easy. He refuses to have him over night (when would he get a rest if he did ) and constanly turns up late or not all all (due to sleeping in - the bst one was for a 3.30 meet up - 3.30 pm that is)
Now I am part time at work he collects him from nursery then eitehr turns up at my house (last week I was still at work and he had to check to make me fell guilty as DS was cold and upset when I wasn;t in) or phones me to get me to go and get DS after a couple of hours so the one half day I have on my own to do housework (ok to collapse on the sofa) isn;t even working out.
He is crap with money so never has any credits on his phone so I have to phone him all the time - esp when he is due to pick up DS to ensure that he is awake (as for some reason the nursery take his latenes out on me and never to him) and is always late with money for maintainance so I have to struggle even more than usual.
Last week I almost screamed at him when he said he was unable to give DS the yogurt I had packed for his pack lucnh as you forgot to put a spoon in seriously a 35 year old man is unable to feed his son the pre-packed lunch provided due to the lack of a spoon.
Rant over I feel better now.
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curlygal · 27/01/2009 18:31
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