Right will try to be succint - I get very little free time - my exH has DSs every other weekend for abt 24hrs and sees them abt 3 hrs on one weekday (he picks DS2 from school).
He puts pressure me to get home from work by abt 6 (continually ringing) on the weekday evening and DSs see that he can't wait to get out the door.
Last night he rang me going on abt their behaviour, today three hours after I dropped them off he rang saying they need to see a psychiatrist. He is very school teacherish and pompous in his style. It's like he is blaming me for the way they behave.
Fine I am happy to see whether they need counselling but fgs he refused to go to Relate and I suspect that any counsellor would want to see all of us.
Together they are a handful because they argue and fight alot - at school or individually there are no issues.
He criticises them heavily in front of them. He has never been very loving (which I told him) towards them (or was never to me either) and I think they seek his attention even if it is negative.
He has alot on his plate - he has new DCs (babies). is living in his new DPs house (DCs say to me he has changed).
Regarding DS1 (Year 7) I think he is totally out of touch - his friends parents (who I talk to often) are having probs with their DSs (whether they are two parent or single parent) - combination of preteen hormones and transition to secondary school.
I am willing to talk to exH about his 'complaints' but do resent him offloaing to me in my limited free time.
Sometimes I don't answer the phone but of course have no way of knowing what he is ringing about.
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Ex rings me when he has DSs to complain to me about their behaviour and I am not happy
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wintercitylover · 17/01/2009 19:10
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