i moved out with 3 dcs to rented accomodation last april, he refused to move out. getting an injunction to get him out was possibility but in the end seemed better to spend money on nicer place to live to "escape" his controlling behaviour....so now i paying more than twice in rent what he is paying in mortgage for the former joint home (it is still joint owned at present). he keeps making comments about having no mmoney to pay the utilities etc. he has a job at present but i dont know what he is earning...i imagine not huge amount.
but - he now has three bedrooms to himeself he could easily rent one out!
is it fair to push him to pay some maintenance for the kids even tho i have good salary? am now struggling (not breadline but having to cut back a lot...) as rent is so big and have spent all my savings on stuff for the new place etc. also solicitor fes to come...
and do you push for maintenance when ex is only going to see the dcs briefly at contact centre at present? (due to his mental illness/abusive beahviours)
i.e. should he be made to be responsible for his children financially even if the amount is relatively small? is a principle i think....and when contact is limited?
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is it fair to ask ex for maintenance when i am bigger earner?
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cestlavielife · 15/01/2009 11:33
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