<whispers> I potentially have a date tonight with a very nice looking (iirc) young man

[MascaraOHara]

I'm trying not to get carried away as it might yet fall through (would't surprise me)

But eek.. I have a date! with a nice looking 28yo.. that I actually met in a bar a couple of weeks ago.

I've been playing it uber cool as I actually wasn't that fussed about meeting up with him, I think that might be what has kept him interested.. but now today is here, I'm feeling a little excited!

First proper date in some time and I'm a little hopeful as I haven't been 'looking' lately

[Tinkerbel6]

Nice one, try and keep yourself nice and relaxed and take it in your stride, hope it goes well for you, where you going anywhere nice ?

[Carmenere]

Excellent now do be sure to behave disgracefully to test him

[smileychubs]

oh mascara that is good news that what happens when you are not looking, that what happened to me a couple of weeks ago and he has been smittened every since.Would like to see me every night if he could.

[MascaraOHara]

Oooh Thanks.. I'm feeling really relaxed about it actually. Finally after a few compeltely awful years I have started feeling like myself again a few months back so, it's definitely a good start lol

Tell more Smileychubs

[brightwell]

Enjoy!!!!

[smileychubs]

hi Mascara sorry for the delay been shopping well I just went out for a drink with him and he has rang and text every day since we just clicked I wasn't expecting to as like you had a bad time plus I only took said yes as he was getting on my nerves when I was out with my friends, I thought it would get rid of him and here am 2 weeks later and he is asking me out all the time, telling me he likes me etc we have had a few snogs but he hasnt tried anything else. Keep thinking its to good to be true and find myself being abit cynical but I think I should chill and just go with the flow, and enjoy being spoiled as he wont let me pay for anything (i do try) but he just says why. We are going out tonight

let me know how you get on Mascara.

[Colditz]

Ohhhh God how exciting!!!

[MascaraOHara]

well I'm stil here

because

[MascaraOHara]

he farking cancelled me.

[MascaraOHara]

see now though SmileyChubs, that's what I'm waiting for lol

[mamalovesmojitos]

oh crapola. life's a bit trying sometimes isn't it? you know what they say...everything happens for a reason etc etc.....

[turquoise]

Oh bugger . Did he give a genuine reason, or is he just an arse?

[alleve]

Oh no! Was getting excited for you. Is that it then?

[Colditz]

what a bell end.

[MascaraOHara]

Not sure if we will meet up but he's ill and might be getting made redundant today and is getting hassle from his ex, although they broke up in March

He suggested Sunday instead but I'm busy all weekend and then I'm away next weekend.

It could just be really rubbish timing!

Actually I'm not really fussed, would have been nic eto go for a drink but if it doesn't happen I'm not too bothered, I only spoke to him for about 5 minutes and we've not spoken on phone, only texts.

He's going to let me know the outcome of today so I'll see if he texts.

If there's any movement I'll keep you posted

[smileychubs]

Oh Mascara I am disappointed for you. I will looking forward to reading all the gossip.

[Tinkerbel6]

Oh thats a shame, hopefully he will call you up and arrange another date when he hasn't got so much going on.

[MascaraOHara]

quick need some advice..

he's just text but all it says is that he still has a job

I don't know whether to bother with a reply

[moosh]

If your gonna see him again, I'd reply. Although its been nearly an hour since your text, so you've probably replied already.
You lucky girl MoH, make sure you go on a date with him when he calls.

[cissycharlton]

Text him. Say something nice and supportive.

Give him a bit of time too but don't give up on this one.

[alleve]

Give it a go. You are only committing to a couple of hours of your life. You may have a lovely surprise, if not nothing lost .

[MascaraOHara]

HELLO!!

OMG, I have so much news, hope someone is still reading lol

I did reply, I just sent a bland text mentioning the outcome and wishing him a good time this weekend. he replied you have a good one

forgot about him, went out last night and hooked up with an old friend who I'd lost contatc with.. who has happened to turn into a nice looking straping young man!! we have been in contact via text on and off all day I have a perma-grin. I went to bed last night feeling all happy and excited and woke up this morning, grinned to myself and fell back into happy dreams and we only had a cheeky kiss

so the the first guy text me this afternoon. I've jsut replied.

Men really are like buses

[ANTagony]

Can I have a timetable then please?

[ANTagony]

Sorry meant to put {extremely jealous emoticon}

[MascaraOHara]

lol, if I only I understood the timetable went from 0 to 4 in 2 weeks.. i'll probably be back to 0 by Wednesday lol