From ds1 today becasue I wouldn't buy him some lemonade.
So who took them on holiday this year? Who took them to CHessington? Who takes him to the football? To Wembley for the FA Cup semi & final? Who buys the football kits? Who takes him to the cinema? To bowling? To soft play centres? To the beach? To the country parks? To the fair? To adventure golf? All things they/he wanted to do. Who takes them for days out when I can? Who's taking them to the rally in December? Who's sorting out his birthday party? Who lets him have friends round to play? Who organises for him to see his friends when we can? Who plays football/cricket/tennis in the garden with him? Who sits with him in the evening and reads with him/plays with him/watches football with him?
Not his dad I can fucking tell you. In the last year their dads taken them out twice, once to London & once to Brighton. He doesn't even take them to the beach. We live in Portmsouth, so it needn't cost any more than his bus fare.
And as for not treating them to toys. No he's damn right there. They have a house full. Oh, and a storage unit full. You know what? I'd rather spend time with them than throw money and new toys at them. To me, doing fun things together, whether that be at home, down the park, at a theme park, whatever is more important than playing the fucking ps3/xbox/wii, or downloading film afer film so you can just shove them in front of the tv while you and your mates smoke pot.
Sorry, but I've had this brewing inside of me for the last hour and now he's in bed I can get it out. I wanna scream, punch things, smash things up. Over a bottle of effing lemonade.
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mypandasgotcrabs · 23/09/2008 19:59
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