My ds is currently with his dad for 2 weeks. Appart from the fact that this is too long for a child to be away from his mum and vice versa he will be put through a house move and next saturday his dad's wedding. Before ds left he had regressed and started wetting himself worrying about all that was going on and being very clingy to me. I have had phone contact with him and he talked about his dad and mum - NO i am the only mum - I hate that he called her mum. When ds comes home he will hardly have any time to re-adjust before school starts again. Does anyone now how to help him deal with all these changes and do I have any right to make sure that he doesn't call her "mum"? Very worried for him. On a personal note why does the Idea that he is remarrying hurt me so much after all I left him because of domestic violence and shouldn't care what he does and should be thinking poor girl marrying him - you don't know what lies ahead of you.
sorry about all the waffle but know others out there will have gone though this and will have great words of wisdom!
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lexiwest · 16/08/2008 09:26
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