Hi MN...
ex has been getting the kids every sunday afternoon for months now. He stays 20 miles away ( his choice we haven't moved)... and he's been collecting them.
I passed my driving test 2 weeks ago (WOOHOO!!) and now he says I've got to "do my bit" and I've to take them to him. naw. He's waiting for a financial settlement from me and is SOOOOOO bitter about it its unreal. He actually said to me last week that he'd only take the kids more often once I'd given him what I owe him. For the MNers that don't know... he was a kept man and is still owed money from the equity in MY house, cos we were married.
He texted tonight asking what time I was dropping them off and I said I wasn't. I'm not well and neither is dd (4) and he should let me know what time he's collecting them.
He texted back " I'll collect them but you're not getting them back" !!!!
Now I know I can just not be home... but I'm worried about what he means. he can't spend even 24 hours with him and he's always been unstable... I swear to god he's the type to do something horrible to get to me.
He used someone elses phone to text that...he always does when he threatens me.
I just need some advice and some support right now. He's pushing my buttons and I'm scared.
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Am I ever going to be free from his threats?????????? He's got me scared.
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Toothache · 26/07/2008 22:35
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