I am in dillema and dont know what to do!
I have really good friend who is at work through most of the summer holidays, she has a partner who works full time also and she has a 5 year old DD who needs looking sfter while they are at work.
For last 2 Holidays (Easter and May) she has juggled childcare between me and another friend. It is only for 4 hours a day and I didnt mind to start with as she is a mate and I was happy to help out.
BUT
Popping round to see her today she has again asked me to have her DD all week for 4 hours a day while she works. I was so not expecting it, so had no reason to say no.
I am on my own with 3 kids as it is and I really want to get house sorted AND spend proper time with kids these holidays but feel like, because I am stay at home mum, I am target for working mum to use me as child minder.
I really dont mind helping out when they are stuck but am dreading next 6 weeks because I know they will expect the same next week,and the next.
I really, really dont want to fall out with her as she is very good friend but how do I say "sod off, I have my own kids to cope with and entertain, without you landing on me" without hurting feelings?
Any helpful hints??
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cantseemyfeet · 19/07/2008 02:43
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