Help! My DS (21month) has started getting very upset when his dad drops him home after an access visit. It's only started recently, but today he was in tears and it took ages to calm him down. It seems to start as soon as he realises that his dad is going and I'd love some advice on what to do about it.
Bit of background: I left his dad about a year ago (DS was 10 months), XP didn't see him for 8 months (he was on a sulk) and for the last 4 months he's seen him Sun aft and either Frid or Sat morn. They both seem to love it and I'm really glad it's going so well especially after the break.
But - now the tantrums. It obviously can't be split anxiety - I think he just really loves seeing XP and is upset to be coming away from dad fun. D'ya reckon more dad time would help (XP is very keen)? I'm concerned that it might just make things worse, with increased tantrums rather than the 2 /week we have at the mo. Or is this just a toddler-type phase that should improve as gets older?
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Traineetoddlertrainer · 29/06/2008 21:20
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