I can't believe this is happening to me after my crap divorce! Am about to spend a weekend away with a lovely new man (separated 2 years ago from ex and he's the first since then and am really ready for a new relationship). Met him online and emailed for weeks and got to know him quite well, finally met and I wasn't expecting anything but we really clicked. We haven't stopped thinking about eachother since then and are both really excited about the weekend. We're booked into a hotel in separate rooms - he's been a real gent and said he didn't want me to think that he expected to sleep with me. Communication is good between us and my gut instinct is to trust him until proven otherwise. Everything he's done so far indicates that he's really keen on me.
Having not had sex though for 2 years and before that it was just going through the motions, I am absolutely ready to explode! At 50, I have never felt so alive and wanting sex (with the right man). I'm nervous about the weekend, I think I'd like something exclusive and long-term with this man if we're right for eachother(although we live 200 miles apart and both have kids)and wonder if having sex this soon is wise. Should I just go with the flow and see what happens or make a decision beforehand to hold off? I would definitely be comfortable just sleeping with him though and lots of cuddling and kissing. Feel like a teenager but want to act like a mature woman!
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mocca · 15/05/2008 09:32
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