I know I am lucky that he takes the boys & gives me some time to myself, but he often has them when very hungover (like last Sunday, after he had been out drinking until 3am, then took them round my parents while he flopped around feeling sorry for himself!), or will often take them round to a friends, where he leave them to play with the friends childen while he drinks with the friend. He often goes round there from around 4pm (when they start drinking) & I have found out from the friends wife that he often doesn't leave until around 11pm!!
I then pay the price the following day because the boys (especially 5 year old DS2) are over tired & bad tempered.
I have spoken to him about this before, and he has said that he will make sure he gets home earlier, and that he won't drink that much, but then I find out that they didn't leave until 10.30 - 11pm, and he often takes their 9 year old daughter back to his to stay, which means DS1 doesn't go straight to sleep when they get back.
He hasn't done it for a while, but I have just found out from his friends wife, that he has made plans for this Sat. Ex H didn't mention anything to me.
I know it is a Sat night, but the boys are then over tired onte Sunday & I have to fight to keep DS2 awake, so that his sleep pattern isn't mucked up for school on the Monday.
Ex H has told me that he will have the boys back by about 9ish, but I know once he starts on the bacardi & whiskey, all plans will probably go to pot.
The boys love seeing their dad, and Sat will be the first time this week as he is working lates all week.
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Pinkchampagne · 07/05/2008 14:52
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