can I be selfish and talk about me (and my current date)

[MascaraOHara]

I've been out with him twice in 2 weeks, should I cancel my date with someone else on Saturday to see him again?

[chocolatespiders]

how lush is he?

[davidtennantsmistress]

na see em both is what I say

[OverMyDeadBody]

yes see them both, it's too soon to just choose one, keep your options open for now girl.

Is the other guy someone you know or is it a first date? Maybe you could meet him earlier and then meet up with the first guy later in the night?

[MascaraOHara]

Other guy would be a first date (internet) not spoke to him at all. If I cancel it will be my 3rd date in 2 weeks with same guy..

he asked if I was free Friday but I couldn't do Friday, suggested I could think about cancelling my plans Saturday and he said if I could he would cancel his so we could do something together..

he is quite lovely BUT I wasn't prepared to meet anyone so soon AND I can't believe he is as keen (and as sane) as he seems.

I've decided though that I don't think I have any faith in men anymore

[goingbonkers]

How lovely to have the choice!!!

You go have a bit of fun with both of them! If you're not 'in a relationship' with either then you're def not doing anything wrong. Just make sure you can choose between them when the time comes to drop one!!!

Enjoy!

[MascaraOHara]

Also 1st date bloke lives an hour away

[OverMyDeadBody]

meet the first date bloke at about 6 for a quick drink, then teh second guy at about 8, then even if first date turns out to be hideously repulsive you still get to see nice other guy. Otherwise you will feel like you've wasted your evening.

[MascaraOHara]

LOL! I can't meet someone who's travelled an hour an forked out for a hotel room for a quick drink.. even I'm not that attractive

[OverMyDeadBody]

yes but he could be vile mascara, I once burnt my throat gulping down a scalding cappochino on a first datew with a hideous repulsive man just so I could make my excuses and leave .

You need to have an escape plan, just in case.

[OverMyDeadBody]

the photo on his profile was about ten years old and probably the most unlike him picture could be and a fluke as he looked normal in it.

You never know.

[MascaraOHara]

LOL at burning your throat!

Isan't that what toilet windows and emergency phone calls are for

[OverMyDeadBody]

It was awful, really really awful.

I was too polite to just leave, altohugh when I first spotted him I pretended not to see him and sat on a wall for 20 minutes contemplating whether to just walk away. In the end he came over and I pretended I hadn't seen him.

[lou33]

ha you know i think you should cancel sat date as he is a bit of an arrogant cock

[littlewoman]

Well if you don't have any faith in men any more MOH, that's a step in the right direction imho. You know the song, "won't get fooled again"?

Go for 3 date man. At least you know he's not a mutant. The other one's a bit of a gamble, and you can always put him off til another day

[davidtennantsmistress]

ah right ok should have clarified, didn't mean see them both in the same night - I actually meant one on fir and one on sat! lol.

at least with date you've met before you know who you;ll be with, but then again I like to know how much I really like the man by going out with someone else - if I like the man i'm on the date with as well then I don't normally bother seeing the first one again if I feel bad for being on another date I stick to the first one.

[MascaraOHara]

Lol @ some of these comments..

poor OMDB not running away in time!

I think I've decided to postpone new date for a couple of weeks and go out with local guy for the 3rd time. I think I want to spend more time with 3rd date guy so I think that must be a good sign.

Lol @ Lou.. will see how arrogant cock takes to me playing 'hard to get'

[goingbonkers]

Lol at all the code names; 3rd date man etc!

Hope it goes well whatever you decide! x

[zippitippitoes]

sounds good

zippi went away with climber for weekend on thrid date

[MascaraOHara]

Oh I rememebr that.. wa sthat only yourthird date?!? it went well didn't it..

he is cleaning lol

[zippitippitoes]

was cheltenham

are we psoting too much when we can all remember each others dfates lol

[MascaraOHara]

no.. we are bonding.. tis the equivalant of lads playfighting in a beer garden

I said I'd see him (3rd date guy), so we are both officically clearing our diaries... I asked what will we do.. he gave me a number of suggestions and asked what I'd like to do.. have suggested I go over to his and then decide from there.. want to see him on his own territory.

He lives with his mate and I get the impression it's a fucking dirty a batchelor pad.

might go and watch a film or might get him to take me to his local

[lostdad]

How very dare you MascaraOHara. A man lives on his own and it's a s**thole?

I'll have you know there's been a good deal of more housework at my place since my ex left...she was happy to live in mess - I wasn't.

Done it before though. I was a student once!

[zippitippitoes]

lol bf lives with two flat sharers

it is actually more tidy than mine

which as lostdad says doesnt take a lot of doing

[MascaraOHara]

no, no LD.. he gave me the impression that it was a shit hole lol..

..when I said something like what do you do when people come round and he replied with "we don't invite people round"

I told him not to spend 2 days cleaning but to at least open a window.

[lostdad]

• I confess...I do have friends like that!