We haven't seen my XP more than once since December but he calls regularly to speak to my DD on the phone (she's 18 months). Before Easter he made a point of asking what she wanted (I didn't want her getting a chocolate overload) and I suggested colouring-in materials - books or crayons or whatever.
He's wound her up a few times on the phone about the present coming, she knows about "presents" but obviously has no concept of time or waiting. Despite the hype, he hasn't sent anything and when I remind him he's "just posted it" - well it's been "just posted today" twice now and still not arrived.
She's forgotten now but when she's a little more grown up she's going to know when nothing arrives and be disappointed.
How do I handle this? There's no point saying to him not to mention things if you're not going to follow through as it'll be met with denials and lost-in-post type excuses. it's not the first time he's done this but I've let it go as she's so little but she is starting to understand now.
I'm offline now for a wee while so not ignoring any posts btw
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Tippychick · 27/03/2008 12:24
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