Hi, I wonder if anyone has been in the same situation or if anyone knows anything that can help. I was with the father of my son for a very short time, we split when he was a few months old. His contact with my son who is almost 3 years old, has been very inconsistent, at times having no contact for a several months. (The arrangement was supposed to be once a week for a couple of hours). He has had no involvement in the upbringing of our son (his choice, but I'm glad anyway). My son has even started calling other male family members 'dad', bless him.
Unfortunately, for some reason, (I'll blame it on the hormones) I let my son have his father's surname on the birth certificate. My surname is his middle name. Now he will be starting nursery and I really don't like that fact that he will be using this surname now, and for all his school years to come. I would love for us to have the same surname, after all, I have raised him and he is with me all the time. But I know this isn't legally possible. Does anyone have any experiences, any loopholes?
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Tinkywinks · 13/03/2008 22:41
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