Does anybody els find sat nights the hardest?

[Jane1979]

Me and xp split up about 6 weeks ago now, seem to be fine every other night, but on sat night I seem to be really lonely. and its not like we did anything special on sats either, anyone els?

[tortoise]

Been single just over 2yrs.
I have good and bad nights. Last night i was feeling very lonely. Other nights i am fine.

It does get better.

[Jane1979]

It's just wierd I was happy as larry last night stopping in on my own while ds was fast asleep, but tonight feel really lonely!!! I guess I've got to get used to it, thinking back when me and xp were together there was many a lonely night!!!

[nutcracker]

Yes, Saturday nights and Sundays are the worst, but I don't know why as we never did anything when we were together anyway.

[singledadofthree]

i go shopping on saturday nights as its so boring here. all kids out for the night. i have a cylinder head to strip off ds's mini - what fun.
last night for something to do i worked til 10 putting up curtain poles for a sp in her new flat. not relly sweet, just bored but handy.

[bethoo]

i think it is just the prescence of someone being there that we miss. i ask mates to come over but they are all busy with their own lives. if it was not for getting a laptop nad having unlimited access to mn and msn i do not know how i would have coped. shame i did not have it when i was pregnant alone every night!!

[shelleylou]

I think we find saturday nights the worst cos are friends are out or busy and we cant go for whatever reason. Just as well we have the internet to help keep us sane

[jamsambam]

saturday nights..crap telly, frienda are all out and my mum has a great social life that she like to tell me about on sunday morning ( ewww)...buy chocolate, dvd's and wine, in that order and no real food, just junk....

it works!! ( sloshing the wine glass around...oh god..its saturday night..hic)

[shelleylou]

i think my order would be wine chocolate dvd, not got any tonight though but im looking round at a fully finished front room (including carpets and curtains been without them for ages) so thats enough for me tonight.

[jamsambam]

ooo..well done!!

im sleeping on my ds2's bedroom floor as my bedroom has had to be treated for woodworm...little buggers..i really should paint it once its safe but i cant be arsed at the mo!!!

[shelleylou]

thank you, i think im doin well got keys at end of november and just got my bedroom left to do need a wall replastering first though and tiling in bathroom. Sve for the rest of my flooring now lol. I know the cant be arsed feeling. Sorry to hear your sleeping on the floor bet youl be glad to be back in your own bed.

[jamsambam]

i would if i had it to myself!! my ds2 only sleeps for a few hours a night and spend sthe rest of the time wriggling around in my bed!!

[shelleylou]

arg. only thing i can think of is to get a bigger bed or a camp bed or something simialr so if he does come ito your room he isnt stealing all our space

[dylsmum1998]

lol can you get into ds bed? i have done this when children have over taken my bed, rather frequently of late!

[shelleylou]

well thats a better idea than what i came up with, im not at that stage yet

[jamsambam]

haha...great ideas!! i quite often slouch off to the sofa or his bed when it all gets a bit to much, but he will follow me. It not being in my bed, its me he is after!! he has always ha dthe luxury of coming into my bed when he wanted, my ds1 cant stand sleeping with me and has never even woken uop long enough in the night to move!!

Butr at least i can say that i will have a man ( small one ) in my bed at some stage before i turn 40!!!