Especially pinguthepenguin!! that comment you put on my last thread 'help advice needed urgently' was great, admittedly at the minute I feel so low (going to docs later) but that comment helped me soooo much I haven't really stopped crying, not in front of DS though. It's made me realise everything really, how we could never ever get back together, how I can never ever trust him again.
Last nite when X dropped ds off I text X to find out what ds had eaten coz didn't want to talk to him he decided to ring me why?????
We were having a civil conversation about ds saying how he seems happy and then X started asking me questions about how I found out how long they were actually seeing each other I told him not to go there I just wanted to talk about ds nothing else obviously we ended up having a row and I put the phone down on him thinking this is my time with ds I don't bother him when he's with ds so why should he bother me.
In the argument he threatened the usual stuff getting custody, but what I don't understand about this is I have never once said, even at my angriest moment, that I would ever stop him seeing ds, so why does he have to go on about custody? he also said that he would get custody coz my medical history (I had depression, PND etc). How can he be so nasty? after evrything he's done and what we've been through in the 7 years we had together, surely I think to myself that it should be me thats angry not him.
He's just messing with my head!!
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LoneLou · 14/01/2008 10:41
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