Rant warning - I need to get this out and have no where else to go right now!
I just called my dd's father as after a couple of emails asking him about contact he's stopped responding. He is incapable of having a conversation without going back to what happened in the past (and it's usually how HE THINKS it happened and not how it really did!) I know I was stupid to call but I wanted to know what's up with him as my dd keeps saying daddy and he hasn't given me any definite answers about anything so I have no idea what to say to her.
His answer was he'll call as and when 'he's ready' (WTF?!?!). I told him no he won't as it's not fair on her and he needs to be consistant (how many times have I said that?!) It was a pointless convo and all it did was make me angry... especially as the whole time my dd was in the room making lots of noise and he didnt once mention her, ask about her or want to speak to her!!!! And I have no idea if he's going to be contacting her or sending any more maintenance money either.
I wish I could be like him and just forget the b**rd but I worry how that might affect dd later on... tho me making the decision to cut all ties might be better than having him come in and out her life when he feels like it.
Urgh, I wish I'd never called!!
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OMG, he makes me so ANGRY!!!!!
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chickenmama · 13/01/2008 17:31
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NotDoingTheHousework ·
15/01/2008 16:35
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