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How much maintence do you receive from your ex?& How often does he see the dcs?

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allgonebellyup · 10/11/2007 15:06

Sorry, this has probably been done a hundred times before..
i have 2 ex partners now, one is my dd's father and the other is my son's father.

Dd sees her dad one sunday every fortnight,more in hols, and he pays us £250 a month.

Ds's father has him (and dd sometimes)every single fri night til sunday night, and sometimes one evening in the week. He pays £450 a month.

Does all this sound reasonable?

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allgonebellyup · 10/11/2007 15:07

Maintenence

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Santasmissyontheside · 10/11/2007 15:30

i know it goes on earnings and circumstances etc. Dh says 176 to exw for his ds and he see's him four days for every other set of days off. He does shift work. Sounds very reasonable to me!

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lou33 · 10/11/2007 15:35

not a penny

he has seen them 3 times on my instigation since he got back from thailand at the beginning of october, and i paid his train fare each time

before october he hadnt seen them for 14 months

he hasnt called them for over a week

i sent him a text asking him why he hadnt called them, as there was no reason he cant do it every night, and he said he has not enough credit

i told him i am sure he found money for his beer fags and calls to hid gf in thailand and heard nothing back

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