how to ex's highly strung new girlf

[h0pe]

Hi all, i've posted on here a couple of times now and always get good advise so i hope you don't mind me your ear(s) again!

My ex has had a couple of intense relationships since we split, that's all he's really capable of.

The ironic thing is, i'm always relieved when he finds new girlf as it means he lays off me and i tend to get a bit of peace.

New Girl has been with him nearly a year now and they seem to have a highly charged relationship, the thing is intially she was fine with me and I to her. Lately tho she seems to be getting a paraniod about me and it's bugging me now. She tells my daughter various things, such as she loves ger ( she hardly knows her and see's her very limited times) she's best firends with me ( I hardly know her) she's also quite taken with one of my friends who I'vw known for years and also happens to have a child by my ex's brother ( bear with me!) they seperated and it meant we could start seeing each other a bit more which is brill for our children. Ex's grilfirend doesn't agree and is sending msg's to my firend asking her to stay away from me. I don't know the full content as my friend wouldn't tell me ( fear of upsetting me i think ). The thing is i'm getting a bit worried now - what's her problem with me? I finsished the relationship with my ex and am now happily settled with someone so it's not like she has any reason to be jealous!?!

Any thoughts? xx

[colditz]

She sounds like a nutter to be honest - nutter is as nutter does.

[Tinkerbel5]

this sounds like something between your ex and the girlfriend, maybe she isnt getting the commitment she wants from him, she does sound very young.