I haven't posted on here for a while because I thought I was getting on with life after my ex and I separated at the end of June. He basically had other woman who is now pregnant with their child. I don't allow her to have anything to do with our dds at the moment. Ex usually comes to see our dds a couple of evenings a week after his work and has them every other weekend. I have never tried to stop him seeing them.
He has stayed over at my place this weekend again whilst having the girls as his other woman is staying at his flat (his choice to come here). I have asked him to get his place sorted so the girls can stay with him as I have to go and spend the weekend elsewhere. This weekend I spent it seeing my MIL and SIL who have been wonderful since he left i.e. I might be divorcing him but not them, I will always be part of their family.
He came to pick me up today basically because he is worried I won't get back til late. He also phoned my MIL to check I was really going to hers this weekend after I refused a lift there from him. On the way home in the car he said he was fed up of me making life difficult for him having to only spend time with other woman every other weekend and if it carries on he won't see our dds until I decide she can see them also. He says that after being separated for nearly 4 months I should now be over 15 years of marriage and that (even though I have never had an affair in those 15 years) I am not the complete innocent in what has happened!!!!!
My MIL and SIL say it is because he is jealous that I have got my life back, I have lost three stone, wearing short skirts again, getting chatted up, going out with friends, going to see a band play next month, whereas he now has another baby on the way and realises he is going to have to stay home and look after it and that money is going to be so tight for him (he doesn't see why he should pay my bills also even though I don't work).
My reply to all of this was that I would like to get Christmas time over with before she starts to see my girls as Christmas is going to be so different for us this year. The rest of the family will be working or away or have other company coming so it looks like it will just be me and the girls. AM I REALLY BEING DIFFICULT OR HIS HE JUST BEING A WANKER AND IS JEALOUS LIKE HIS MUM AND SISTER SAY HE IS.
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Is he just trying to put me down or has he got a point
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almostmidnight · 21/10/2007 19:42
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