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A friend has just told me about this site!
I was wondering if any of you out there could give me some advice. I am a single mum with a one year old boy. My little one has now become scared of blokes and whenever any of the dads at nursery go to collect their kids he starts crying. He does not have any contact at all with his dad. All my family live overseas so he has not got male relatives here either. I do not have any male friends and whenever I see my friends who are attached it is generally as mum and kids. Have any of you experienced the same or got any ideas of what I can do to get him used to blokes or do you know of any groups in the northwest where single mums and dads meet up on weekend (I work fulltime).
I do not know of any single mums who are working who get their maintenance if claiming through CSA. Do any of your know anything to the contrary? His dad used to pay up albeit it a few days late each month but was made redundant and it stopped altogether. I heard he has another contract job but as yet no maintenance payments. We have a maintenance agreement but it has an annual review clause in it and clever bugger waited til then to become unemployed so not a lot I can do with that and courts do not go on agreements they make you go through the CSA. The added complication is the fact that not only is he married ? his wife does not know about pour son - so hw would not want CSA involved, but his latest ?bit on the side? works for the CSA and I am worried she may be able to interfere with an application I put in!!!! I know I should be an applicant for Jeremy Kyle show!!!
Any advice you can give me on either of these would be great!
Thanks!
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GLC · 04/10/2007 15:56
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