Am I being unreasonable

[almostmidnight]

Sorry if I am posting a few threads at moment by dh is driving me mad. Before he left he had booked 2 weeks holiday in August. When he left he cancelled it so I asked him to book at least one week to spend with his two girls.

That holiday is this week. He spent today with me and girls as we both need to be there to take them swimming, and he is seeing them next Thursday afternoon whilst I have my hair cut. He is also having them at my house next weekend whilst I go away for two nights but doesn't want to come round Friday until after tea. I asked today what other day he wants to spend with the girls (Wednesday is no good as dd1 is at nursery in the morning and has a long nap in the afternoon).

His reply was he was hoping to spend have some time to himself. When I pushed him he admitted he wanted a couple of days away with other woman. I told him he had taken this week off to spend with the girls not his other woman and it was time he put them first. He can't have his cake and eat as he thinks he can. They came first and she should always come second to them.

Please, am I being unreasonable telling him he can't go away but has to spend either Monday or Tuesday with his children!?!?!?!?!