It is a very long story, but the crux of the matter is that my H found out I was staying at my new BF's house last weekend when he had my daughter. Made it worse because H needed to go to London halfway through the weekend as his Dad put his Mum in hospital!! So BF gave me a lift home and I arranged with my parents to collect her as cannot drive.
Anyway to get to the point, being an idiot I had forgotten my mobile charger and had to phone H from BF's house, H rang 1471 and hell broke loose. Got several nasty texts, a horrendous phone call and my BF got a message on his phone and lots of calls from H, who wanted to tell him how awful I was.
Things have calmed down now, but it has affected my daughter badly (she is 2 1/2), which has made me feel terrible! H has decided that I have to pay £2000 back that he gave me when we split up as a (guilt) gift and since the weekend he has stopped all maintenance payments. Bearing in mind that I received nothing from the marriage apart the 2 grand and although he says he is broke, he has bought a new flat (in which he has all OUR furniture, possessions etc) and is off to Cuba for 3 weeks this year. Whilst I have to live with my parents as I cannot afford to live alone and I also work part time as I need to try and support my daughter and I and pay my parents some money.
He also wants to take my daughter abroad to a wedding in July and I am no longer happy for that to go ahead. This is such a mess, I need to see a solicitor, but am unsure what I can do.
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Rocklover · 21/06/2007 11:51
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