evening all, here goes, split from violent drunk abusive h last july, i took baby to see him regularly til dec when he assaulted me again, then started contact centre visits, around which he continued to harass me by phone til march when he received both a formal last-chance warning from police to cool it or be arrested, and a formal warning from sol's warning cool it or get injunction order so he wont be able to contact me at all. guess what, today he phoned 17 times, abusive, threatening, i told him after no. 3 i'd call police if any more and he called back said 'well best call 'em then bitch, i'll come and see you soon as i'm released'. all because i rang to ask him not to feed dd so much chocolate at visits that shes sick after. i'm shaken and i'm livid. so i've logged it with police but my mum who i live with is worried basically that if i make a formal complaint he will come and kill us all, or at least be even more abusive.help!! what do i do??? do i risk it and get him arrested, or get an injunction, or both, or neither???? and hes still banging on about overnight child contact at his house!!! aargh. poo-head! i wish v bad things on him!
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