my violent drunk idiot of a husband. left him in July 06, was taking little baby dd (born June 06) to see him v regularly at his request but he just couldnt keep his fists to himself so for the last few weeks been going to contact centre. he makes out that hes a dab hand at daddying just becos he did it before with someone else, tho he isnt allowed to see his other 2 dds (he has his excuses but makes you wonder what made me think we could make family life work? i feel a fool myself for that). hes changed about 5 nappies since dd was born, and seemed to struggle with them all. likes to make out i'm a bad mum as i'm crazy(?!)/over-hormonal (according to his solicitor) and of course lying totally about the abuse he's put me thru, promiscuous (last time i went clubbing was with him at start of pregnancy, but he keeps telling me his spies have seen me cheating on him while we were together. as if! grrr) and indecisive. i think this is week 6 now of contact centre- i am much more relaxed with contact this way. but. last week he didnt show, claiming sickness. grrr at him letting dd down, who he claims to adore so much. this week he turned up with a lovely black eye, obviously been fighting in pub as so often before. grrr at him behaving like a teenager while claiming the rights of a responsible parent. and for about 3 weeks before that turned up stinking of booze. grrr at him nevertheless trying to gain overnight unsupervised contact when he can't even do 2 hours a week supervised sober. Sorry now that im no longer scared of him he just makes my blood boil almost yes irrationally. i suppose i'm just hankerin after someone agreein with me that his behaviour is beyond stupid!
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