Just that really.
Ex husband texts all requests to our 13 year old.
It came to a head when he booked a holiday to go a day early. Didn't ask, didn't tell me expects the child to tell me. Has asked them over for an extra night this weekend through her.
I've lost my rag, told him it's through me or nothing.
For back ground we have a court order, he refuses to follow it, he sends me a spreadsheet every April of what he's prepared to do the next year with the words there will be no more. I never say no unless we have holidays booked and follow what he says. He texts the children every week and changes pick up time and he only actually sees them for half of what's court ordered.
So we are at a stale mate, he wants things for his upcoming holiday and he wants summer dates. I'm refusing until he contacts me directly.
Surely not fair to do through a 13 year old?
He says it will be by post then he has posted a letter, shall i accept this, which I don't want too as I don't letters from him to my home, plus he has given me a before address and even when our daughter wrote to his proper address he claims to have not got it. Shall i send everything recorded?
I'm at a complete loss how to resolve and get my daughter out of the middle of his game?
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gttia · 11/01/2017 09:26
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