From time to time I think I'd really like to have a loving relationship with a man again. I've been on quite a few first dates, less second ones (usually my choice) and recently saw someone about 5 times over the course of 3months but I ended it as I didn't feel he was right for me.
So last night I had a date with someone who seemed perfect for me. We shared a real passion for an interest that's a core part of my life, he was presentable, intelligent and solvent (I believe I am also those things).
But I have a young DD. This does not fit with how he sees his life. Most people my age would have DC who were independent and he probably assumed that would be the case.
This has depressed me enormously. Not because I think he was 'the one' or was overinvested but simply because I wonder if anyone who wants the same kind of life I do would not want someone also with a young child.
My DD and I have developed a pretty good life together and I'm grateful for that and not unhappy but I do miss affection and intimacy and the idea of never having that again makes me sad.
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Last night's disappointing date
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Disappointednomore · 31/12/2016 11:21
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