Looking for some advice, been separated from my kids dad for over a year now and our two kids (1 and 3) go and stay at his two nights a week. Up until recently it's worked really well, but the past month or so my eldest has been moaning and not wanting to go.
It started out just the odd time he'd moan a bit that he didn't want to go but then he'd be quite happy once he got to dad's, or dad arrived to pick him up. But he's been getting more and more reluctant to go. Last weekend dad brought them home and said my son had been crying and wanting to see me all day. So we chatted during the week and said if he didn't want to go for his mid week stay he could stay with me and dad would just take the youngest, and hopefully the break would mean he'd be quite happy to go again by the weekend. So he missed his mid week stay this week.
This weekend comes around and when it's time to go to dad's my sons crying again, doesn't want to go. He goes anyway, and I get a message from their dad again this morning, he's been crying upset wanting me again.
I don't know where to go from here. I've tried talking to my son and asking why he doesn't want to go but he can never tell me. Their dad isn't a bad guy and he's getting quite upset that our son doesn't want to go, but at the same time he says he doesn't want to be forcing him to come if he doesn't want to. I don't want my son to loose his relationship with his dad and am at a bit of a loss on what to do.
Any advice would be appreciated!
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Starryeyes28 · 11/12/2016 21:30
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