My DD is nearly 5 months. Ex left me when I was 23 weeks pregnant after walking out on me after scans etc. He wasn't involved in pregnancy after we split, wasn't at birth as had problems and ended up having section. At 2 days old he asked could he take her to his family without me, when I refused due to breastfeeding and being terrified of being away from my newborn he threatened court etc. He comes to my house to see her twice a week and has started taking her to his mums for a couple of hours on a Saturday. One Saturday DD came home soaking because he hadn't changed her nappy and I texted him asking to just check in future. Still never changed a nappy. This week she's teething so is dribbling and has nappy rash. When he picked her up I asked him to change her bib and nappy if either were wet. When I picked her up she still had the same bib on and nappy. I'm at my wits end with it and I'm on the verge of saying that he can't take her until he proves he can look after her. I'm happy for him to see her at mine and I've never stopped him seeing her but it's not fair on her as he isn't looking after her. Also, he takes her during nap time and doesn't let her sleep because he wants to play with her and show her off which means I have a very cranky baby on a Saturday night, Just need some advise on how to move forward.
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