I'm feeling a bit down so posting here and wondering if other lone parents might understand, or feel like this from time to time?
I just feel a bit overwhelmed.
After a long break as a SAHM, I completed a degree in the hope that I could find fulfilling work. I've just spent a year filling out application forms and getting no-where. I am so skint, no contact with DS' dad and no child maintenance.
DS is 11 and just started secondary school. He is severely dyslexic, few years behind his peers and he absolutely hates school. I've spent years getting the right support for him at primary school and now I feel like I've got to start all over again at this school. As any mother of an SEN child knows, it's a constant battle. DS has become so anxious about school he has lost his appetite.
I got offered some work as a Teaching Assistant and had to turn it down as there is no way I could leave the house before DS in the mornings, as DS feels sick and anxious about school every morning. Last week he had a panic attack before going into school. I can't not be there for him in the mornings.
A TA role would be very practical, and roles are always available through agencies. My degree was based in Education and I have worked in schools/with children. As a lone parent, childcare during holidays is always an issue and the one job that works around this I can't even do because of the early start.
That's it really. Sometimes I feel really strong and I'm able to feel positive about my situation.
Other times, the responsibility of being the only parent, the sole earner, the only person who DS turns to, the only one having to continually contact school about DS' needs...can just be overwhelming.
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cakedup · 27/10/2016 01:00
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