My ex has huge savings and lives off them. (think nearly half a million) He has shared care 50/50 of our child but , aside from feeding him when he's there, refuses to pay anything else for him for the past 4 years. I.e I buy all clothes, shoes, uniform, pay for after school classes, school trips, even send PJ's and toothbrush round there with him . Can the child maintenance service get me any help even if it's 50/50 care and he doesn't have a job?? Have just spoken to child maintenance options helpline and they seem unable to answer this and say I'd need to put in an application to find out if they'd count his savings as income or if they'd ever give anything to one parent if it is completely shared care. I would like to find out if it's completely out of the question before I put in an application as due to domestic abuse I don't want to anger the ex unnecessarily as he will go on a rampage.
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