My daughters father has only just come back into her life 8months ago after making mistake after mistake amd messing us around. I gave him one last chance and now found he has been lying about not being able to have her on his set days because he either has "work" or something else...but I have proof that he is in fact out with his other kids and wife and he makes excuses because there is no room for my daughter to fit in their car so they aren't able to make an outing all together. I am sick of his lies and to me it comes across like he doesn't even care to not include his daughter in a family outing.y daughter is 4 years old amd she also tells me that he doesn't hold her hand crossing roads but holds his other child's hand from his current relationship and he never hugs or kisses her. There is so much hatred between us both but I have been civil and amicable to make this work but now I have found out he is lying about things to do with having his daughter I've come to the point where I have told him he doesn't deserve this opportunity and if he wants to see her then he can go to a solicitor, his attitude and behaviour comes across as lazy and not caring and I won't have that for my daughter. When she starts asking questions or saying she wants to see him how am I meant to answer them? I know it's not the right thing to do but it's been mistake amd let down after let down for 5 years and he just doesn't deserve to have her in his company if he makes lies up just because he can't or doesn't want to include her.
any advice is appreciated.
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jasmyn90 · 02/07/2016 20:43
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