I have no idea where to post this thread but am in hope that some one can advise me on my current situation.
I have a 20 month old LO and we were staying at my parents sharing a room. I have been bidding on the council as a band b (lacking a bedroom) since Jan 2015.
My step dad is a very aggressive alcoholic, the moment he walks in the door the house is a horrible place to be in, there have been times where he has slapped my mum, had her by the throat and everyday there is aggressive shouting. A few years ago I was hit, dragged down the stairs by him ect I learnt that staying locked in my room was the best thing to do. Since having my Lo the moment he walks through the door I lock the room and don't come out until they have gone to bed. Over the past month I have had a complete relationship breakdown with my mum who says she wants me and LO out but is refusing to right a letter of eviction. I have since been sofa surfing with LO staying at friends and grand parents who have been so helpful but have made it clear it cannot be long term. I have never mentioned to my council about the domestic abuse towards my mum as I am petrified they'll get social services involved to take my Lo or involve local authorities which will aggravate the situation. No police reports have been made and I'm reluctant to involve them my self in fear of my mums safety.
If I inform the council of my situation do they have a duty to Inform social services and if they place me in a b&b do I have to take it or can I find my own b&b to stay in?? The local b&bs are over an hour and a half away from me with busses and I cannot stay at them during the day.
If someone can help, has been in or knows someone that has been in this situation I would really appreciate some advice as I'm petrified on what to do x
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elliemichelle123 · 02/06/2016 01:39
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