So I've had the children 100% for three years, 24/7 I am exhausted tbh.
Advantages : make him actually do some parenting.
Currently when they see him they walk the streets of the local town centre, he takes them to Starbucks etc for meals but it's not good for them.
He has no comprehension of what they cost and whinges constantly about paying child support.
Disadvantages: he basically abandoned them twice abroad because it suited his career/ new girlfriend - who's gone.
I think they would feel abandoned again.
He works all over the country. He some flexibility but not enough to ensure the older ones are looked after, the youngest child I guess would be in childcare.
He's not organised, when we were married he never got them to school on time once.
I half just want to show him it's not as easy as it bloody looks
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50/50 he is asking for it, if I fight it he won't get it, considering giving it to him.
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Pisssssedofff · 10/04/2016 14:57
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