Hi all, I'm new here and this my first post. I really need some advise as I feel really stuck.
I'm a single mum of 3 children aged 7,6 and 4. I'm 27 and was with their dad since 16! We married young and had the kids close by. As a result I left college and have been a stay at home mum to all 3 which means I have a serious lack of experience when it comes to employment. He always provided while married.
We divorced about 10 months ago. He just gave up on wanting us anymore; lies and manipulation. Anyway I've tried applying for jobs from retail to reception work and I've not been successful. I need something full time (more money)to be able to look after my kids and now I just feel stuck. I'm really low, I feel so worthless. My ex is out having fun living his life and sees kids randomly whenever he wants. Doesn't prioritise them and just leaves them for weeks. It's just so unfair. I'm here genuinely trying to fight to develop myself for myself and my children. I feel like I can't do anything.
On top of that I'm in a tiny place as temporary accommodation as I'm homeless. Trying to find places that accept dss.
Everything I do I'm stuck. I have no family or friends. There's no support or having a break or someone helping out. It's tough alone with 3 kids, who might I add are always fighting! Some days like today I just cry and lay here. Because no matter how much I try I'm not going anywhere. I feel really low. I sometimes think maybe they'd be happier or better off in care because I'm nothing, I have no qualification or confidence or anything - just miserable. All I want is an opportunity to build on something to try, to settle in a home with my kids and work and develop myself. I want that but I've been let down over and over again. I even question my being here in life, coz really should anyone suffer like this despite TRYIJG to make a difference for them and their kids.
I've looked through threads on here and most seem to get on fine and have some confidence and do something to move on but me, I'm just stuck I don't get it.
I'm just so depressed and see no hope after all this trying :(
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Lonemama88 · 20/03/2016 11:44
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