back to square one

[sillysausage16]

Not posted on here for a long time I forgot about the amount of support available.

A few weeks ago I started seeing a lovely bloke, we knew each other already but he was married so obviously nothing ever happened between us. His marriage ended a few months ago and we began talking more than usual until we eventually met in town for a drink. Things sort of escalated from there and we quickly became an item and were very serious very fast.

A couple weeks ago his exp started saying that she still loves him wants him back etc (their marriage ended because she cheated) and the situation became quite intense. He still stays in the family home when he has his children while she is out.

This has really effected him and he now says he can't be in a relationship until he sorts his head out. We have feelings for each other, that's not the problem. But he also obviously has feelings for his ex aswell because I think it was too soon for us to start anything.

It's all such a big mess

[Kangaroo123]

It's a mess! Stay clear. Go out and make sure he knows you are not hanging around. Don't get dragged in. It'll knock your self esteem.

[2flyforwifi2]

Agree with kangaroo...stay well clear. You don't deserve this mess. It must sting though. Hope you are ok x