I've been a single parent apart from a few years, i very nearly married my youngest childs dad but sadly it didn't work out in the end.
I never wore a ring and even when I was engaged I rarely wore it out.
I don't know if its me, but over the past couple of years i've become quite conscious of people looking down/pitying me. As i've never really worn a ring and im quite a private person I think everyone assumes im some down trodden single parent, when im actually pretty happy and in a good place.
I do drive a shitty car and my job is not the greatest or best paid, but it works really well around the kids/childcare and I really enjoy it and my boss is great. I hate clothes shopping, so although we have what we NEED, I admit we can look a wee bit scruffy sometimes, something I should put more effort into but im saving for a shiney new car to replace my very old but very reliable old banger. (I've always been a saver)
I think people must think we live in squaler, but the reality is very different, we have a nice (council) house with nice things but maybe our appearance doesn't reflect this as I value a comfortable home over the latest designer fad and the kids don't really care if its primark or prada yet. The kids eat healthily and well.
Its starting to really really piss me off.
Sorry a bit long and justifying myself but im sick of being talked down to and people assuming im struggling and always finding life hard (doesn't any parent sometimes!!) I quite happy thank you!!!!
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trappedinsuburbia · 27/01/2016 20:59
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