We went to court in 2003 to agree contact for my ex and our dd 8 and ds 6. I was granted residency but have always tried to encourage regular contact between the children and their father.
Ours was a rather acrimonious divorce but we agreed he would see them on Wednesday 4pm-6pm and Sunday 10am-5pm every week. NEVER since 2003 has he ever kept to the agreed times and it's got to the point now, where it gets to 2pm on a Sunday and we're having to phone him to see where he is!
My solicitor says I cannot force him to turn up on time but could take him back to court to revise the agreement. Obviously this seems like the best idea but will cost me quite a bit as I am earning just over the threshold for legal aid.
Has anyone else experienced ex-partners not sticking to their contact orders and any suggestions about how to approach it? BTW ex refuses to have any sensible sort of discussion with me about it and the times agreed were strictly on HIS terms!
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elizmummy · 29/11/2006 17:12
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