Ex wanted to see DC this morning as its his birthday and he had plans from 2. So got up, they did his card etc, waited til 1 and thought ah well and took them out for a picnic so they'd have done something nice. He called shortly after and when I said we'd waited but just gone out as he didn't show he started his usual shouting, swearing etc.
He thinks I should have called etc, made the effort to try and wake him and remind him, I think that's what alarm clocks are for and I don't want to take on the responsibility. He has form for not showing when he says he will and then expects the DC and me to cancel any plans and accommodate him when he does show up, so basically we are expected to be beholden to his social life/hang overs and have no plans of our own. I've had enough! But WIBU not to wait til 2, as it is his birthday after all. And what should I do next time?
DC have a party to go to on Sunday, they really want to go ( best friends birthday) but I know he:ll expect them to cancel it to spend all day with him. I think he should have turned up this morning if he's that bothered and not now expect them to cancel their social plans because his took priority over seeing them the 2 days before (like last weekend!) But WWYD?
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ExP very angry he hasn't seen DC on his birthday and blames me. WIBU?
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theendoftheendoftheend · 31/07/2015 19:17
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