Hi, my ex and I already have a court ordered contact/residency arrangement.
His behaviour towards me continues to be aggressive and threatening , no physical violence, he doesn't have my phone number so no nasty texts or calls however he will email me pages of abuse. He is incredibly bitter and blames me for all his problems. Then demands favours, then is outraged when I refuse.
I want no contact with him outside of what is absolutely necessary, he was very controlling in our relationship and abusive although not physically ( he would however smash my belongs, film me while he was out to check up on me etc).
He has shared residency and lots of time with our children.
I would like that to be reduced, to every other weekend and one evening in the week, currently he has 2 out of 3 weekends (Friday to Sunday) and one evening a week.
Would the court consider reducing contact do you think? I feel like I'm running to them going 'he was mean to me, punish him' but his behaviour isn't normal, this surely can't be good for the children to be around so often?
I'm fully prepared to be told I'm in the wrong, he allegedly hides all this rage and bitterness from the children but who knows.
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Zame · 03/07/2015 12:03
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