Probably there is no one that's ever been in my terrible situation. But I have 3 children to a child abuser. (NOT TOGETHER) I got married to my new husband last year.
I have no contact with my ex. Only through solicors. We've been apart now near 5 years. My children are 8,6 and 4. All to this fuck! I was informed when I was pregnant with my youngest that he abused his niece many years ago.to cut a long story short. Social services helped me move and get a new house. He got sentanced to prison for 18 months!!! (A joke I no) for 13 accounts of indecent assault to a minor. My issue now is I don't want my children any were near him especially my daughter (she doesn't no anything about him) she calls my husband daddy. But am at lost he's fighting for contact and am fighting for no contact. But my solicit says he has a human right to see my children!!!!! I couldn't bear it!! The whole situation is effecting me mentally. What do I say to my poor children in years to come. Part of me even feels guilty cause am sure the older 2 children want to see him.any words of advice would be appreciated. I'd love to talk to someone who has been in a unfortunate same situation.
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babyalan13 · 07/06/2015 15:34
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