Im bloody fuming! DS 12 lives with dad, long story but his choice. Im not happy about it. he has a social worker and a family support worker. Excluded from school and attends a pupil learning centre (when hes in!) He has a child in need plan. Hes sent home regular for use of this bloody e-cig! I hate them, Ive told him he has NOT to bring them to my house. Just found out - dads partner buys them for him!!! Not crappy ones either, these great big tank things at £25 a go. Part of the plan states he must not be allowed to smoke them and we mustn't encourage it!
To say Im furious is an absolute understatement.
How do I approach this. No chance of discussing this with either the ex or her, they just aren't approachable - their way or no way kinda thing.