Dh (ex) has just accused me of using him as a baby sitter. We separated a month ago and he gets the keys to a new flat this month, the point of him getting the flat was so the dc's could stay over. He is now saying he can't have them stay over as he doesn't feel well enough to look after them, we both have mental health issues and have both been struggling since the break up. He has been baby sitting once a week so I can go out with friends ( just for a couple hours ), he obviously doesn't want me to go out in case I have fun or meet someone else.
Both my dc's have sn's and can be a handful, half term will be hard work so I asked for a bit of extra help but was told that because I kicked him out I should learn to look after the kids on my own and not ask him to look after them, eventually he agreed to sit with them tomorrow night for a couple hours but made a right fuss.
I want him to agree to gave them on night each weekend ( fri or Sat ) and to sit with them here one night every other week but apparently this is using him. Am I asking too much?
How often do your dc's see or stay with their dad?
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How often do your dc's dad see them? Am I asking too much?
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Nevergoingtolearn · 24/05/2015 18:15
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