Any advice on how/whether to talk to ex-h about his parenting?
He is generally a bit crap (although I'm not trying to do him down, he has his good points) rather than outstandingly bad/abusive, for which I can be thankful.
But, for example, he often rearranges/cancels contact days because of his social engagements or because he's busy at work;
he lets dd have far too long on computers, tv etc.;
doesn't do her reading/homework (she's 5 so there's not a lot of homework, but the principle is that she should read every day, which he doesn't enforce);
doesn't really do anything with her, other than cinema visits or long visits to his parents, when he relies on them for childcare;
never calls or makes any contact with dd outside of pre-arranged contact days, even though I have frequently encouraged him to call/skype in between, or even to pop by the house and see her.
You get the picture ...
DD's always talking about him and I make sure always to big him up, what a good daddy he is etc. And I never talk about him negatively in front of her.
I'm just wondering if there's some way I can tactfully approach some of these issues, particularly the unreliability in making contact. Or should I leave well alone and just do the best I can on my side ... ?
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