I will try to keep this brief as the actual issue is pretty much as the title says.
Stbxh left me two years ago for OW. We have two DC who are now 5 and 3 and he was the SAHP before he left. Following a year of uncertainty & mess, we moved into 50/50 care about a year ago which was working well - well, I thought so although my eldest DC wasn't settling that well and I think the constant toing & froing was confusing her. Stbxh decided not to return the DC after one of his weeks and since then, it has been horrendous.
I took him to court to get my access back and the decision was made to reassess the 50/50 due to my eldest's comments & wellbeing. Things were agreed, then changed, then changed again.. until he decided he would have them 6 hours a month - no argument.
I have had to reduce my hours at work significantly, had to apply for benefits, settle endless legal fees whilst keeping my DC happy, fed, warm and loved...
I am at breaking point now, I think both DC are very challenging at the moment, my 3yo in particular is just hard hard HARD work and my eldest is still confused, clingy & very fragile emotionally. I have no money & no confirmation around external help yet, I'm still doing a full time role on part time hours until they can find a job share for me, my family are overseas and I just can't seem to get happy
I am not enjoying life, I am not enjoying my children or even being that nice to them at times, I worry constantly. ..
I know things will work out - they always do - but just struggling so much right now!
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FushandChups · 04/02/2015 20:22
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