Hi
Split up from partner 2 weeks ago and moved to a new house. DD 4 yrs old. Has started hitting me lots when i try to get her to do things she doesn't want to do - ie when its time for bath in the evenings. Any help/advice from anyone else who has been through this? or can offer any insight?
Tried ignoring but the hitting just escalates, tried putting in time out which is the usual discipline measure for such behaviour but she just comes straight out fighting. What to do??? I know she is hurting/angry but has always been determined to do exactly the opposite of what i;ve said, even before i split from ex partner. Have been bracing myself for the downturn in her behaviour and now it is here. I know i have to ride it out and there is no magic answer but would appreciate help if any can be offered.
Thing is ex partner and i could never agree on the right way of raising her and he would often get involved and take over what i was trying to do if he didnt agree it was right. I was only ever trying to do time out or ignoring strategies, he just never liked seeing her get upset so we were always at odds thus she has seen that happening and has often got away with bad behaviour when he used to take over and i was often seen as bad mummy
Struggling big time. Any constructive advice welcome, thanks all x
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Split up from ex & moved hse 2 wks ago - 4yr old DD hitting- help!
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isaterror · 26/01/2015 20:40
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