Dear All,
I have come on here with a courageous name change to announce that I, namechangingmonkey, have not had sex for THIRTEEN YEARS.
J*sus.
I thought it was ten.
THIRTEEN YEARS!!!!!!
Dear God.
The last time was with a man, my then boyfriend, who said, I love you but then left me soon after. It was actually pretty good.
Then...I was depressed for a year or two.
And then I had my children in rapid succession (without having sex - I'm a single woman by donor sperm choice)
And since then, other than one revisit with my exes hands down my pants a few years ago (and no repeat: he's married)
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
How can this be?
Fifteen years ago I was at it five times a day with a boyfriend.
Now I am a born again virgin.
There is NO SEX IN MY LIFE.
This is an outrage.
I don't suppose anyone else out there can come anywhere near this horror.
And I've probably sent the horrors up those of you who have recently turned single.
Dear Lord.
THIRTEEN YEARS.
Help!
(Incidentally the worst time was when I was pregnant. I was desperate, aching for sex. And... nothing. The closest I got was a vibrator, which I threw away after my cleaner found it in the bed and left it positioned in the middle of my pillow).
HOW CAN IT HAVE COME TO THIS???????????????????
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namechangingmonkey · 08/01/2015 20:09
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