Ex husband is due to see our child this friday for one week holiday contact.
I did reconfirm it as she has dental appt and health visitor before she starts her new school this september.
He was supposed to have her for two weeks but hes already had her for the first two weeks of the school holidays. And then this week coming would make it 3 weeks which creates a 50/50 contact over the holidays. So seems fair that i get her back for the final week.
As i'v been getting a lot of negativity from him recently i'v asked him to drop her back at my mums so she doesn't have to see anything she shouldn't. Which i feel is in her best interests.
Iv not had a text back to reconfirm the arrangements, so if he turns up at 12 on the day can i ask him to send me a quick text to show me that hes confirming it before he takes my daughter.
And if hes late what then? Do i take my daughter back with me as i live 2 n 1/2 hour drive from him? And send him a message sayong he didnt confirm and has not shown for contact to take place?
I'm new to all this but want to make sure i'm doing right by my daughter and right by what the courts would want just incase as he's talking about setting up a child order through court.
Iv never denied him contact ever. And never will hes her daddy so he has a right to see her. But hes being off!
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Jessiegirl1 · 13/08/2014 14:54
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