Hi. I'm new to this and in need of some sort of advice...any advice!!
I split up with my ex after a 3 month fling b4 I discovered I was pregnant. I reluctantly told him I was pregnant and have his name on the birth certificate. He was unreliable with contact, violent towards me (this is after we split!) and a control freak. He doesn't work (he's a mature student!) and I have found out is a well known drug dealer who has had involvements with Heroin and the police records on him at last count over 2 years ago was 54 pages. This includes drug dealing, violence, driving under influence of drink/drugs, possesion, robbery...need I go on? He is trying to get Parental Responsibility and contact. He hasn't seen my son since he was 18 months old and this was at a contact centre, again his attendance was extremely unreliable! I am desperate to give my son a well adjusted safe upbringing and am so scared that the 'Sperm doners' involvement is going to have a negative impact on this. How do I keep him away?? He can take me to court as he is a 'Student' (he's 37!) and i work full time, am up to my eyes in debt so would have to pay solicitors fees and I'm frightened!
Can anyone give me any advice please?
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littleminx13 · 01/09/2006 12:24
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