So I have 2 DS (7&5) with my ex. Split after 5 yrs together as he was a bloody joke.
Basically he swans in and out of the DS lives constantly, and by swan I mean 3 months finding himself (partying) abroad. And now relocating to another country (which I found out on FB first). I've constantly pushed for him to see his kids and support them but this time I can't be arsed. I've explained to the DS about his possibly not returning and the eldest is fuming and the youngest doesn't care.
He keeps messaging to Skype the boys and I'd ignored him until he sent me a message filled with stuff id told his SM, which he'd just twisted. But now I'm back to ignoring him again.
I know I'll have to deal with it if he comes back to the uk, but the DS don't want to talk to him (I've made it clear to him) so can I just ignore him and stop feeling like the bad parent for a change?
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Can I just ignore ex in the hopes he gets the hint??
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Mofo2610 · 23/04/2014 23:46
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